Monthly Archives: December 2014

I hate tinsel

  During the season of peace and goodwill we ask all women to let go of any bitterness that you may have accumulated during painful and destructive relationship. Bitterness imprisons you in your hurt and anger and the time has come

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Dumped again?

 Sue just sent me this blog to post but I insisted it needed an intro. Whenever she sends them I sit back in awe at what she produces. I like most of you, am often thrilled to dump the year

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“I don’t need him to live” – An inspirational letter

 We receive many letters from women, some in crisis, some at the beginning stages of healing and some who have recovered. Tracy sent a letter this morning and with her permission I am posting it. I love what she wrote

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Have you been conned by intimacy?

 Intimacy is not confined to sexual intimacy. Relationships are for us opportunities for healthy intimacy that can be found in the touching of one’s hand, the knowing of family dramas and a sense of a history shared. What was astounding

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Do you know the difference between doubt and instincts?

 To a healthy person the value of doubt is caution. Doubt is an instinct, it’s that niggle, the feeling in the pit of your stomach that warns you.  Instinct in an abused woman has lost its voice. If I felt

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