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Are you a nacissist? Take the test

 What is narcissism? Narcissism is a personality disorder and Psychology Today suggests that up to 6% of the population suffer from it. Research also shows that the people most likely to have an affair are narcissists. The word “narcissism” comes

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What’s your word?

  To all our loyal readers and followers Philippa and I would like to take this opportunity to wish you everything of the best for 2015. By now the Christmas trees are coming down and wreaths and angels are going back

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“You’ll be a man, my son”

  The best part of a misogynist is that as long as you always expect the worst from them they will never disappoint you. There is something so comforting about such reliability. One of the issues we have not mentioned

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I hate tinsel

  During the season of peace and goodwill we ask all women to let go of any bitterness that you may have accumulated during painful and destructive relationship. Bitterness imprisons you in your hurt and anger and the time has come

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Dumped again?

 Sue just sent me this blog to post but I insisted it needed an intro. Whenever she sends them I sit back in awe at what she produces. I like most of you, am often thrilled to dump the year

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“I don’t need him to live” – An inspirational letter

 We receive many letters from women, some in crisis, some at the beginning stages of healing and some who have recovered. Tracy sent a letter this morning and with her permission I am posting it. I love what she wrote

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Have you been conned by intimacy?

 Intimacy is not confined to sexual intimacy. Relationships are for us opportunities for healthy intimacy that can be found in the touching of one’s hand, the knowing of family dramas and a sense of a history shared. What was astounding

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